Here’s an excerpt from just one comment at I Blame the Patriarchy:
The other day I had a little disagreement with a commentor here and you know what, it didn’t make me feel â€˜oppressed’ by feminists to have a disagreement with a feminist. It doesn’t invalidate feminism or my feminism or the person I disagreed with’s feminism that we don’t agree about every damn thing. It actually sent me off thinking about a lot of things and re-evaluating my own opinions and considering others.
And here is the blog of Antipodean Kate, who wrote that comment. Which is now on my hotlist.